<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2526047729584912352</id><updated>2011-07-30T11:56:05.039-07:00</updated><category term='seasons of life'/><category term='synesthesia'/><category term='getting older'/><title type='text'>Mind of Gene</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mindofgene.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2526047729584912352/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mindofgene.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Gene</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08691869414104208428</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>2</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2526047729584912352.post-7631890075937161975</id><published>2010-02-24T13:31:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-02-24T13:32:16.326-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='synesthesia'/><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;SEEKING SYNESTHESIA&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2526047729584912352-7631890075937161975?l=mindofgene.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mindofgene.blogspot.com/feeds/7631890075937161975/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mindofgene.blogspot.com/2010/02/seeking-synesthesia.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2526047729584912352/posts/default/7631890075937161975'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2526047729584912352/posts/default/7631890075937161975'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mindofgene.blogspot.com/2010/02/seeking-synesthesia.html' title=''/><author><name>Gene</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08691869414104208428</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2526047729584912352.post-8713237315757588552</id><published>2009-11-30T18:38:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-30T18:48:53.282-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='seasons of life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='getting older'/><title type='text'>Seasons of Life</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;What season of life is surrounding you now?   Does it define your existence, who you are?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Is it merely a reference point?  What season of life is it when you are getting older, and your parents are older than you thought they would ever be?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;What a change from soliciting advice from your parents to giving advice, and hoping they will pay attention to what you say.  What a change from thinking that you are living in a closed family system, and all of a sudden --- someone outside the family is not only giving advice, but also directives on how the family is to be structured!!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;There are positives to having someone outside the family giving advice, but I'm not sure there are positives to that outside person having authority that you never gave to them -- especially when it is government agencies.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Yes, this season of life suggests some changes in my life -- and to take better care of the ones who took care of me all those years, I will gladly give in to the change, even embracing the change.   But I will not let someone else dictate to me what my duties are as a son.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;This is also the season of life to be thinking about when I am older than I ever thought I'd be.  To be involved while I still can, in deciding what is to be done with me later.   To be an active participant in my life, and not a helpless bystander!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2526047729584912352-8713237315757588552?l=mindofgene.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mindofgene.blogspot.com/feeds/8713237315757588552/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mindofgene.blogspot.com/2009/11/seasons-of-life-what-season-of-life-is.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2526047729584912352/posts/default/8713237315757588552'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2526047729584912352/posts/default/8713237315757588552'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mindofgene.blogspot.com/2009/11/seasons-of-life-what-season-of-life-is.html' title='Seasons of Life'/><author><name>Gene</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08691869414104208428</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
